.....from this hypocrisy & pretence......
What if this isn't everything it should be????

I'm not even sure how I feel....!! !!

Maybe somewhere, someone loves me so much;
He'd share his life with me and my whole life he'd touch;
Maybe somewhere, someone longs to hear me call;
Or maybe, yes, I realized, maybe there is none at all...

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| Monday, June 27, 2011

This post is about UNSUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS and not-so-happy endings..!!!!
Please read through.I am sure you will find it close to reality..! :)

Last two posts on this page have been very sweet & cute,I guess..!! :)
While I was reading those posts again for spell-check,reality came rushing to me & I realized that life is not always about rainbows,sunshine and happily ever-after"s"..
It is more about compromising,learning new lessons with each passing day and moving on...

Yes,I know you also would perhaps be one of those who might be of the opinion I think negative...'cause except one person,everyone thinks that I am negative.[Yes, there's someone who thinks I am positive, 'cause no one could give him the vision I could and I was the only one who could console him]
Yes,I write dark;I write about broken hearts,deceit,trust betrayals,love walking away,losing the most special person of your life and those fake promises...!!

I am not here to justify my perception about anything or claim that I am right and everyone else is wrong.
Once I had written in my facebook status about "Quitting"...It said

"Don't quit because something went wrong. Quit because you tried your hardest and nothing made it better....!!!!!"

A friend of mine argued :- Quitting is quitting,no matter what..

That comment gave me a lot to think about.

I was reminded of a quote which says--- "True love is not about Romeo and Juliet who died together,but about Grandma and Grandpa who grew old together..."

This statement is so true.Everyone talks about Romeo-Juliet but love has its true meaning because of the never-talked about tale of our grandma-grandpa who stood by each other every moment,who understood the importance of the word called "marriage".
Fine,they might not be so "educated",they had not studied even till S.S.C.,they did not have double masters degree or the label "Dr."/"Er." before their names but they had a lot more than that..

It leaves me pretty disappointed when I get to know about unsuccessful relationships.
Yesterday,I was watching the 1995 movie "Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge" on my laptop.It was approximately 12:30-1:00 AM.
There's a scene in the beginning of the movie where Farida Jalal-Kajol's mother in the movie, calls up Amrish Puri-Kajol's dad and asks whether he reached office.Such a cute scene.

I wish there would be such relationships in everyone's life..
It's sad that we come across break-ups,goodbyes and betrayals more than happy endings..
>>The main reason behind unhappy or failed relationships is the absence of commitment and the will to keep it alive or fight for it.
People very conveniently say - "I will walk away,once I find someone new/someone better than you".
They never bother to look back on the one who confided so much in them and were always there,whenever they needed someone to look upto.
>>Ego is again a termite of relationships.It makes the relationships meaningless and ruins all the feelings which had got them together,in the first place."Why should I bend down?" ---The question which ends all relationships.
>>Misunderstandings,loss of communication and dishonesty lead to suspicion and ultimately mistrust between the two people,leading to an unsuccessful relationship..

Be it an unexplained goodbye,a well-strategized betrayal,an unexpected break-up,a mutually agreed-upon divorce or "fake-love" stories[Mind it-"fake-love" stories and not "FAKE" love stories] :) everything leads to an unsuccessful relationship,tears,heart-breaks and a sad-ending with no happily ever-after,but just "Once upon a time"...!!

I wish Akon would sing "I wanna make up RIGHT NOW na na.." and all relationships would be exactly like fairy tale love stories..

No tears,No heart-breaks,No walking away,No loneliness,No unhappy stories and No unsuccessful love stories..!!
Just perfect two people who are made JUST FOR EACH OTHER FOREVER AND EVER AND EVER...!!

4 opinions:

{ maithili } at: Friday, June 24, 2011 said...

A very nice post indeed.. Relations need to be worked on.. Relations just don't last only on passion. It needs two people willing to compromise, to support, to trust and respect each other. Mutual understanding and trust is more important than passion in the long run.. Another thing that ruins relations is that people tend to take each other for granted. There is hardly any need to stick to each other.. In older days it was the man who earned and the woman who made the house a place to live in. But today both the sexes are independent. A woman can well support herself and that dependence on each other is no longer there. Progress and modernity has weighed on relations..

{ chirag } at: Friday, June 24, 2011 said...

superb post
super like

{ Where thoughts are Word$ } at: Sunday, June 26, 2011 said...

Veryyyyyy True Maithili..
I forgot to include the "taking granted" issue in this post!! :)

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{ Where thoughts are Word$ } at: Sunday, June 26, 2011 said...

Thanks a lot Chirag!!!!! :) :) :)


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