.....from this hypocrisy & pretence......
What if this isn't everything it should be????

I'm not even sure how I feel....!! !!

Maybe somewhere, someone loves me so much;
He'd share his life with me and my whole life he'd touch;
Maybe somewhere, someone longs to hear me call;
Or maybe, yes, I realized, maybe there is none at all...

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~Relationships in orkut friendlist~ ^_^

| Sunday, May 24, 2009
Orkut/any other social networking site is any day better than wasting time in those cheap chat rooms , where you add a new person everyday in your life,and the person you talked to on the previous day gets subtracted...

Every conversation begins with
"ASL please....." ----- How I hate this line!!
and ends with a goodbye which means

"It was a nice time-pass.kal kisi aur ki bari hogi..."
and very few friendships last FOREVER!

Yes,I know there're a few genuine people too....but you don't find them that often.

Alright,This post is about "MY" orkut friendlist & perhaps yours too! :)

--------->A glimpse of my orkut friendlist<--------
I was just walking in the streets of my orkut friendlist,when I saw the engagement pic of an online friend.We were the kind of friends, who never failed to talk when online, always called up each other once in a while and then parted ways when we were bored of each other.[Or rather when that person was bored of me.]No,I wasn't invited to the engagement....& I'm not interested in attending the wedding :P

Okay,lets get back to orkut friendlist as a whole.

[And in this post,I shall use the term "Friend" for everyone,be it school friend,online friend,college friend [Juniors included :P] or "ex" friend i.e. someone who is no longer my friend.]

I have 163 friends right now as in on 23rd May 11:45 PM(IST).

Out of these 163 people who are residing in my friend list, very very few friends are really worth staying there.
I've some friends, who never talk to me even if they're online all day long,but still they very conveniently stay in my friend list and moreover, their irritating updates keep harassing me.Also,I'm pestered by friend requests from the people in their friend list,who just want to increase their friend list.

Pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaase spare meeeeeeeeee!!

I meet some people of my friendlist everyday,but we never ever talk online.Obviously,we don't talk even when we meet face to face.....

There're some people who've over 300 friends and I'm also one of the persons in that figure of "300".Needless to say,I'm not on talking terms to them-Just a "hi-hello-bye bye-chalo"[I don't consider it talking] once in an year is enough----MORE THAN ENOUGH.

A few friends are such that they're soooooo busy in their professional life,that they don't even time to call up once in 6 months.I know,it's not reasonable on my part to expect from them but who doesn't expect??? :)

Actually,the worst part is that they expect me to be free,when they're free...I should always spare time to talk online....How can that be possible????

For example,

Me :- Hiee.How're you.Hope you're fine.I know you're busy;Just thought of asking whether everything was okay at your end.It's been a real long time.

They can't even reply to such a sweet message/scrap/e-mail/offline.

HEIGHT of indifference....

And ya,they never forget facebook quizzes and other stupid applications in there;but for me------
Time nahi hai,busy hu---BAHOT BUSY HU,Disha!!

I feel like just asking them to get lost,but I'm too mild to do such a thing.I keep everything to myself,and act normally,lest I lose them... :(

Testimonialsssssssssssssssss--------This is something which puzzles me the most.

Some friends have enough time & words to write testimonials for their virtual friends/not so close friends...But NOT FOR ME!!

They're so shameless that they literally ask me(ORDER me) to write a testimonial,but never bother to write anything for me...

Moreover,they ask me to comment on the photos in their album and never comment on mine.

I get so sick of such people.......

I know these are too unimportant things to write about,but it's all about "thoughts being words".

AUR meri soch to aisi hi hai..... :|

Oh God,how can I forget the matrimonial profiles in my friendlist.You should check out the display pics of some of the people in my friendlist....

Bilkul matrimonial profile ki copy..... It seems as if they want to get married as soon as possible.

Some of my friends even found their life-partner on orkut....EEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeks!!


I know,you find it cool !! :P

.........Buuuuuuuuuuuuut, inspite of all these people,I've some really special people in my friendlist to whom I owe a lottttttttt.....I miss them,I love them & I really wish I could tell each one of them how special they're.I cherish every small moment when I was with them.

Thank you for everything.Thank you for being so amazing.I don't know if you'll ever read this,but if you happen to read....Do accept my heartfelt gratitude for all those little things which mean the world to me.

I won't write any names for any special dedications 'cause it's "OUR SPECIAL BOND"......which is beyond words and needs no show-offs & dedications on blogs!! :)

I'm sure that those people will stand by me forever no matter where they're.

And I'm also grateful to those fairweather friends,who left me----'cause they taught me how to let go,how to move on & how to love.They gave me memories,I'll never forget & a relationship which I'll treasure life-long.

...........I've my primary teachers & my college professors too in my friend list..........I'm so damn scared of the college professors.... :-( :'(

[I don't know why I sent them an add request]

Foolish ME!!

Okay.......I guess I should stop.I can keep on & on & on............!!
There're some things I'm purposely missing out :) ....Please add in comments,if you've something similar to say! :) :) :)

And pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee, don't take anything personally.
It's just a sarcasm with a tint of reality + humour.Just read & forget. :)

I wish to end it with a poem, I received in my inbox few days back.

Friendships online are often fleeting,
Made and lost without even once meeting.
How many friends from online have I lost?
I haven't kept count nor figured the cost.

Some depart, spouting bluster and rage,
Others as quietly as the turn of a page.
Many return though I couldn't say when,
While the rest are never heard from again.

For the loss of some, the fault is my own,
An unkind word spoken and I'm left alone.
Some friends turn away for no reason at all.
I'm puzzled and hurt when they shun my call.

Scores of friends are forever lost to me
Since the systems we called ceased to be.
And more than once, I've had friends die.
I can't forget them; I don't even try.

So take a moment during your time online
And be aware, though there's no outward sign.
That sound you hear, that solitary crying,
Might well be the sound of friendships dying.

-----To all my "online" friends out there-----

I hope our friendship lasts FOREVER.....I value all of you & this is not for the sake of writing.I truly mean it ! :)

5 opinions:

{ C R D } at: Monday, May 25, 2009 said...

Aha!!!! My DP is 1st on the pic uve posted[:d]

What you've written is soo true of netpals. I dunno which category I'd fall into, but just wanna assure you that I aint just a friend accumulator.

CRD :)

{ Mads } at: Wednesday, May 27, 2009 said...

did u hint at my profile where i wrote qualities for my ideal match :O
lol, kidding :)
made a good read. u covered like, every single thing. so loved it...
even i treasure all the online friends i made :)
the poem is too cute.
take care :)

{ Where thoughts are Word$ } at: Wednesday, May 27, 2009 said...


Thank you soo much for the assurance! :)

@ Madhuri

No,I love your profile.Thanks for dropping by! ^_^

It's more of a sarcasm on college friends :)

{ deluded } at: Thursday, May 28, 2009 said...

long post.

but the topic probably needed one.

the craziest ones are definitely the hot brazilian chicks that send a friend request once a week.


but I wish some of my friends could figure that out as well

{ Where thoughts are Word$ } at: Thursday, May 28, 2009 said...

@ Deluded.

Nice blog!!!!!! :)

Thanks for the comment.



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