.....from this hypocrisy & pretence......
What if this isn't everything it should be????

I'm not even sure how I feel....!! !!

Maybe somewhere, someone loves me so much;
He'd share his life with me and my whole life he'd touch;
Maybe somewhere, someone longs to hear me call;
Or maybe, yes, I realized, maybe there is none at all...

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The dilemma of many hearts!!!!!!! ^_^ o_o

| Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Actually this is a continuation of the topic "The essence of relationships" !!!! :)

Just open up your world of imagination and keep reading....

Assume two strangers,who get to know each other through a social networking site....[A very-talked about thing these days ] :D

They start talking to each other,gradually build a feeling of trust and develop a really strong bond.........& BECOME THE BEST OF FRIENDS!!!!!!!

They shared a never-failing relationship and it was the kind of friendship which made everyone jealous.

They had begun to understand each other very well,in a very short span of time of just two months.

It was a relationship free from all lies and intrigues....

They used to talk almost everyday and shared an amazing rapport with each other.

It was an exceptionally enviable relationship.

They watched movies together,went out together on special days and enjoyed each other's company thoroughly.

They exchanged presents on birthdays and spent many wonderful moments together.
It was just 11 months to their relationship,when suddenly the relationship started fading away.......

They couldn't even celebrate together the first birthday of their relationship...

Both stopped calling each other up considering the other person "busy".

Gradually the bond went weak and the everyday phone-calls got reduced to monthly conversations.

Just occasional "Hi,how're you?".

No going out together and no movies.

Not even wishing each other on "FRIENDSHIP DAY".....

The relationship was almost dying....
It was all about ego and self-esteem ,then.The feeling of "Why should I" !!!!

The feelings almost DIED!!!!!

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Now,if this is the case with you,would you take the initiative to sort out things?
  • Would you move on & forget about it or would you still like to hold on and try to make things better and make efforts to get the old times back?
  • Would you move on,leaving the good old memories behind or try to start the friendship afresh and make new memories?
  • Would you let your ego ruin the relationship?
  • Would you wait for destiny to play its part once again or would you yourself try to do something for the sake of the old times?
  • How forgiving can you get?Can you forget the indifference and evasiveness?

Okay,now many people out there must be having this mentality that "What's the big deal?"

"It was just an "online" relationship,Who cares!"


So for those people,forget the previous case and lets change the situation!! Consider the two best of friends who have been knowing each other since their school days,who have shared the most important days of their life with each other and the warmth,the care and the concern!!! Would it be justified and practically reasonable on their part if they just let go? Or should one of them make the first move to begin a new innings of friendship?????
I personally believe that ,for once, we should leave our ego aside and try to contact the other person.If he/she still doesn't respond,then it's better to let go.It would be wise to peacefully separate ways,bid a goodbye to that so-called relationship which could not stand the traps of destiny & time and just try to move on,HOPING that one day he/she would return back.......


What's your take on this? Are you also one of those,in dilemma?

Or Are you one of those who've no such complications in life?

4 opinions:

{ C R D } at: Tuesday, July 01, 2008 said...

hey .nice one

i think itsa a very common thing today.

mebbe its not coz of ego.mot often than not, one of the frnds meets someone new, and is more busy bonding with the new such scenarios they tend to perceive the other person as an irritant and completely avoid them.

i guess ultimately wwe all tend to go with the goes on after all

{ Mihir } at: Tuesday, July 01, 2008 said...

yea and certain times pl also assume that an online relationship is always meant to be frivolous...
not so, but what the hell, jus move on.
Thats all one can do.
Ignore other pplz egos, and get on.
All one does iotherwise is lose one's dignity.
Since when did I start philosophising :O

kshaw at: Sunday, July 06, 2008 said...

hey! i think u've already read my blog so i belive there's no point explaining! but there's one thing i'd like to add. when you are stuck in such a situation, sometimes the things get so messed up that the element of ego goes out of the equation & even if you try to clear the clouds, it still rains on you!

{ The Vitruvian Boy } at: Monday, January 05, 2009 said...

Really a complex situation and i bet many would have gone thru these kind of experiences....

I accept yr solution to this problem...

thats the best to do and still feel happy abt self respect and all... :)


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