Just open up your world of imagination and keep reading....
Assume two strangers,who get to know each other through a social networking site....[A very-talked about thing these days ] :D
They start talking to each other,gradually build a feeling of trust and develop a really strong bond.........& BECOME THE BEST OF FRIENDS!!!!!!!
They shared a never-failing relationship and it was the kind of friendship which made everyone jealous.
They had begun to understand each other very well,in a very short span of time of just two months.
It was a relationship free from all lies and intrigues.... :)
They used to talk almost everyday and shared an amazing rapport with each other.
It was an exceptionally enviable relationship.
They watched movies together,went out together on special days and enjoyed each other's company thoroughly.
They exchanged presents on birthdays and spent many wonderful moments together. It was just 11 months to their relationship,when suddenly the relationship started fading away.......
They couldn't even celebrate together the first birthday of their relationship...
Both stopped calling each other up considering the other person "busy".
Gradually the bond went weak and the everyday phone-calls got reduced to monthly conversations.
Just occasional "Hi,how're you?".
No going out together and no movies.
Not even wishing each other on "FRIENDSHIP DAY".....
The relationship was almost dying....
It was all about ego and self-esteem ,then.The feeling of "Why should I" !!!!
The feelings almost DIED!!!!!
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Now,if this is the case with you,would you take the initiative to sort out things?
- Would you move on & forget about it or would you still like to hold on and try to make things better and make efforts to get the old times back?
- Would you move on,leaving the good old memories behind or try to start the friendship afresh and make new memories?
- Would you let your ego ruin the relationship?
- Would you wait for destiny to play its part once again or would you yourself try to do something for the sake of the old times?
- How forgiving can you get?Can you forget the indifference and evasiveness?
Okay,now many people out there must be having this mentality that "What's the big deal?"
"It was just an "online" relationship,Who cares!"
So for those people,forget the previous case and lets change the situation!! Consider the two best of friends who have been knowing each other since their school days,who have shared the most important days of their life with each other and the warmth,the care and the concern!!! Would it be justified and practically reasonable on their part if they just let go? Or should one of them make the first move to begin a new innings of friendship?????
MY OPINION:-I personally believe that ,for once, we should leave our ego aside and try to contact the other person.If he/she still doesn't respond,then it's better to let go.It would be wise to peacefully separate ways,bid a goodbye to that so-called relationship which could not stand the traps of destiny & time and just try to move on,HOPING that one day he/she would return back.......
What's your take on this? Are you also one of those,in dilemma?
Or Are you one of those who've no such complications in life?